Submission Doesn’t Mean Weakness
“Now he feels like he will be treating me like his child.” In the beginning of a HusDom’s journey it is commonplace for the husband to possess trepidation regarding the thought of treating his wife as...
View ArticleYour Controls
“I need/want to trust him that he is going to lead us down the right path, that his decisions are going to be what’s best for us/family. For the past 19 years I have made most of those decisions…” For...
View ArticleD/s – More Than Just a Fad
“I also learned today that he is really taking me serious now. He admitted that he thought it was just a fantasy or phase that I was going through (due to 50 Shades!!!) and that it was going to go...
View ArticleThe “C” Word – Children
The most frequently asked questions to Little Kaninchen and myself would undoubtedly be regarding children. One could surmise that the frequency of this question would indicate that the majority of our...
View ArticleSub-Space
In D/s there is a power exchange that takes place. The submissive gives her power to the dominant and he in turn accepts it and takes control. The submissive relinquishes her power in order to clear...
View ArticleD/s Contracts | Dominant Training
What is a D/s contract? A contract is simply an agreement used to outline the responsibilities and expectations of both the Dominant and the submissive. The use of contracts in the world of D/s are...
View ArticleDominant and Domineering | Dominant Training
Like most everything else in life, the basis for a good D/s-M relationship is a solid foundation. If the foundation is inadequate the structure will eventually crumble. The confident Dominant will be...
View ArticleSubmissive vs. Slave | Dominant Training
The term slave makes a lot of newer husDoms quite uneasy, myself included. As my journey progressed I began to realize that the term slave in the BDSM community can be, and often is, defined...
View ArticleD/s Roles | D/s Responsibilities Create D/s Expectations
“I read your post about when you got home from a trip, LK met you at the airport. Instead of walking her to her door and opening it for her, you told her to give you her panties. I loved this post btw....
View ArticlePunishment and Aftercare
Another question I need your input on Mr. Fox. Punishment and Aftercare We have done the erotic spanking and that type of thing, but the time has come where punishment is in order. I took over the...
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